Loser! Loser!

Seriously, what does a girl have to do to get fucked?
Okay, maybe I should rephrase, what does a girl have to do to get the guys she finds attractive to fuck her?
So, Mr. Winner turned out to be a real "winner".
He emailed in the morning that he was definitely interested in me and we progressed from email to IM.
We IM'd for most of the day, flirting, being a little dirty, sharing a few fantasies...and then BAM he IM's "I'm sorry. I'm being inappropriate with you."
WTF?
I knew it was coming...the "It's not you, it's me".
Damn right it was him.
I was honest about what I was interested in from the word go and let us not forget HE contacted ME after reading my personal ad and deciding it was what he wanted.
Friends with benefits (FWB) is the new term for fuck buddy.
That's the term I used.
How much more clearer do I need to be? How difficult of a concept is it?
FWB: someone to hang out with socially and have sex occassionally.
Not a boyfriend.
Not a comitted, twitterpatted, you could be my soul mate kinda thing but a casual friendship with the option of sex.
Seriously, how does a guy go from telling you that he is into you (or wants to be into you *snort*) in one hour and then in the next is saying, "I'm confused about what I want"?
How fucking difficult is it to figure out if you want sex or not?
Yes, I'm frustrated.
Sexually frustrated too.
So, my winner turned into a loser and I am left wondering where all the male sluts are when a girl needs one.
I was having my hair done today, telling my woes to my hetreosexual and amazingly attractive hair stylist, and I asked, "So do the answers to male behavior come with the penis, or is that an after market addition?"
He said, "The answers are in the penis because it makes all the decision".
I said, "Gawd if only that were true, I would be getting laid".
We laughed about it but I was crying inside.
My sex drive is off the charts and I can't find ONE male that I am attracted to that wants a sexual relationship.
I wish I didn't have standards that kept me from screwing losers.
Damn standards always getting in the way of getting dick.