BBW Domme Art...FINALLY!

In my adventure, because it is always an adventure when searching for treasures, to find new material to submit to Eileen's and Maymay's Male Submission Art project (if you haven't viewed this project yet, check out my link over there <-------, it is a great endeavor and worthy of your time) I happened across this online femdom museum.
I found it interesting enough to put a link, underneath Eileen's and Maymay's, of course, because it has a variety of wonderful femdom art depicted by many artists. Most of the art is drawn or digitally enhanced images, and although I generally as a rule prefer photography, there was still much I found to be visually stimulating.
There was one exhibition, called
Ecstacy Under Her by Namio Harukawa that I found to be exceptional.
If you know anything about me it is that I do not subscribe to two things about BDSM.
The first is that Femdoms must "dress" the part.
Now, don't misunderstand me, I have much in my closet that would be considered kink-wear but I do not wear those outfits for any submissive, I wear them for my pleasure and the submissive just benefits from it.
I do not need my leather 6 inch boots to BE a Domme.
I AM a Domme.
That does not change if I am wearing leather or if I am wearing sweats and a ball cap.
So, I find it irritating that 95% (based on my estimation) of Femdom art/pornography depicts dominant women wearing costumes as if they are actresses portraying roles in a low budget B movie instead of fulfilling their sexual identities.
My second pet-peeve is that 98% (again my estimation) of Femdoms are portrayed as women who weigh less than the dogs I own. Okay, I own BIG dogs, so maybe that isn't fair, but my point is that human women come in a variety shapes, weights and sizes and only 2% of them are depicted in Femdom.
Seriously, it is annoying.
It is like looking at a Playboy magazine, knowing these women have been airbrushed, siliconed, surgically enhanced and otherwise visually manipulated to the point they simply don't represent reality.
I stopped looking at Playboy magazine when I developed a strong, healthy self-esteem.
If I wanted to play with dolls I would pick one up at Wal-Mart.
Often when I rant about this subject I get the ludicrous rhetoric that I am ranting because I am jealous of the smaller female population.
Honestly, this makes me laugh.
Jealousy describes an emotion induced by wanting something that someone else has and that I don't.
I haven't a want in the world to be anything, any size, any dimension or any number on a scale other than what I am.
Why is it so difficult for people to wrap their minds around the fact that a fat woman, and yes, I qualify as fat, has a healthy, vital, attractive self-esteem?
Am I suppose to be flipping through the images of magazines, comparing myself to fiction and crying in self-pity because I don't look like the females?
If I am, I'm doing it wrong and really, I am okay with doing it wrong, actually I am happily doing it wrong.
And there seems to be quality men who are also doing me...I mean, doing it (*snicker*) happily and satisfyingly wrong.
Which leads me back to the artwork I started writing about at the beginning of this post; it beautifully depicts BBW Dommes with submissive men.
Deliciously large round bottoms squatting on submissive mens' faces.
Lovely full thighs spread wide with submissive men on their knees burying their faces in service.
Lush and full Domme women using the open mouths of submissive men as toilets.
Sexy roundedness galore dressed elegantly, entirely undressed and dressed in simplicity in a variety of dominate positions over gratefully submissive men.
I was so taken with this artists images that I found more here and
still more here.
I love it.

1 comments:

Married Sub (visit their site)

Very refreshing to see someone shares my views on the silly stereotype image of Dommes prtrayed on the web. A large self-confident woman dressed in clothing she finds comfortable is far sexier to me than any barbie doll leather clad woman from the bowels of the internet.

Don't get me wrong, I love leather. I just hate those silly catwoman outfits women throw on to play the role of Domme.

 
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